For American students, this blog is
simply the normal thing and it won’t make sense. However, my international
friends know what I am talking about. So dear friends, ask yourself … Did you
ever call your professor by his/her first name? No sir/madam and
not even sometimes Dr/Mr…. 99 % – 100% of the international students’ answer
will be…. NO….Are you kidding me? How can we take their name? Where
is the respect? No way… not in my 20 years of education! J
But now, I welcome you to the
culture of friendly professors. In the USA, you don’t have to say
Sir/Madam. At first when I came here, nobody told me this and it was a big
shock for me. Here, we have to call professors, by their last name with
Dr. or Mr. in front of it. But most of the time, they ask you to call them by
their first name! Once asked by them you can call them by their first
name. No SIR or MADAM… Funny, right? But trust me, it is very HARD to
implement. I know that very well. You just can’t get used to it and
you feel it is not good way of addressing them. But you have to keep in
mind, it is all about CULTURE and now you are in different culture.
Also one more thing: I love
this culture as, if you have a question you can directly go and ask the
professor. These professors are so friendly; however, back home students
are scared of professors. I didn’t even think of going and asking questions to
my professors until I come here. They have what is termed “Office Hours.”
Office hours means the professor will be in his office for a set time to answer
the questions from the students. If you have any question, just go ahead and
stop in during his office hours and meet him! This concept was totally new for
me but this is, I think the best way of communication and also professor can
give personal attention to the students who are lacking in that particular
subject.
I agree that, these things seem
small and may not matter much. But it is better to know in advance, right? J
So, Welcome to the culture of
friendly professors! I am glad to be a part of this culture and education
system now.
Cheers,
Vidya
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